Live Performance at Oasis: Sissification at CFNM

It tugs at you. You flush red when the thoughts sneak in. You walk by certain shop windows a little slower. You imagine what it would be like to be her. To feel the softness and restriction of feminine clothing, to be sensual, provocative, slutty. If only you had the permission.


TOMORROW NIGHT! Come to Oasis Aqualounge to watch Miss Violet and I perform a live sissification at the Clothed Female Nude Male event. Men and couples are $60, women are free. Tickets can be purchased at the door. The night begins at 8, and we are on stage at 1030. Enjoy the outdoor heated pool, hot tub, sauna and kinky fun. This event is great for beginners who have always wanted to know more about being a sissy. If you want to meet Miss Violet and I in a relaxed and discreet environment, this is your chance.

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Yes the scene plays over in my mind too.

Being a sissy doesn’t make you a woman. It doesn’t make you a man. A sissy is just what we make her. The corset laces tight, the stockings glide over, the makeup dusts on, and finally, the wig sits snug and changes the shape of your face and décolletage. Try on the heels. They change the way you carry yourself – your legs lengthen, your derrière is more pronounced, your back straightens and your chest lifts. Head high, shoulders back. Don’t worry, you won’t have to walk very far, in fact crawling is better. Just come over here where I have a …surprise for you.

Life is Shifting

Your favourite British redhead Dominatrix is making some changes.

If you’ve been thinking about what it would be like to play with me, now is the time to book. Many of you follow my writing, praise my photographs, and send gorgeous gifts of admiration. Take it a step further this summer, before I’m gone.

From August, I will be shaping my schedule to better fit my graduate studies into my life. This means that after this summer, I will be available for only a few short days a month or every other month. I am in the process of creating a mailing list for occasional announcements of my dates for Toronto, Ottawa, and Montreal, as well as further afield.

I love to create scenes for beginners and advanced players alike. I am open to many things, and priority is given to sissies and medical fetishists, and role-play that reaches deep into the psyche.

Amazing things have happened when I’ve joined forces with other BDSM practitioners, including Ms Violet Mays, Miss Ava Rose, Contessa Zoe Aspasia, Chastity Goddess, Lady Shayne, and Maron de Sade.

An hour or a day, in a cage or a cafe, once you feel my fire you’ll crave to be enslaved.

CLICK HERE and apply without delay to see Me



Sissy Saline Inflation

The team of specialists have decided that it is time.

The shiver of steel sliding under you skin, the sting of the drip flowing into you, a slow but steady rise, the body blooms under my control. The maze of tubes, bags, and drips, the clinical precision I take when administering a true transformation, the antiseptic smell, it overwhelms your senses and you know that in this moment, bound to this chair, there is nothing you can do but accept the changes you have been deemed fit to undergo.

You stay put, and I’ll take care of everything. Clothes help structure, cinch, and shape you into a pleasing form. Paint, powder and a wig change the contours of your face. High shoes help you sit elegantly. The bondage is necessary to stop you squirming, as movement hinders progress as it were.

The salt water stings a little as I massage it to form the ideal shape, a reminder that something remarkable is happening. You can’t escape it. Look down. Your breasts are filling out that bra you always kept in your drawer. There is a true sissy in the mirror.

I am trained to administer saline inflation to the chest and scrotum. Marks are minimal, and there is a tiny amount of fluid seepage after the procedure, which is generally caught by the small round bandage that covers the incision mark. All equipment is single use and sterile. After the procedure, reabsorption takes a couple of hours after the tourniquet is removed depending on your hydration level, and is body safe.

Sessions involving saline infusion must be booked at least 1 week in advance, with a small deposit for materials, and for returning patients only. Minimum length for a saline session is 2 hours. Ensure that you are well-rested, hydrated, and nourished before your saline inflation transformation.

This scene was realized with my sadistic sister, Ms Violet Mays.

See Me Now

Winter is the perfect time for reflection and to build on close relationships. It’s when we can be most creative and submerge into projects that need a lot of dreaming put into them. We also need to keep warm with lots of spanking, enemas, and figging.

This week, I’m most excited about wearing my leather boots while strapping subs down to the experiment table, snapping on the surgical gloves and getting right to the bottom of The Issue.

I’m always game for a round of Force the Sissy, where bountiful frills are locked in place with zips, buckles, and tight lacing. Because we can’t have you escaping, can we.


Thursday 2pm-7pm

Friday 10am-7pm

Saturday 10am-10pm

Book time with me this week. Email to set an appointment without delay.




Don’t Fear the Dungeon

It’s supposed to look scary. You should be intimidated. These feelings are normal. They don’t need to stop you from visiting one. I will not seal your eyelids shut with needles and waterboard you unless you ask me to. A dungeon is the perfect place to play and explore. There are more cleaning supplies than a hospital, more tools than your dad’s shed, and the hooks in the ceiling have been installed by trained professionals. No plaster crumbling down on your head, not today. Walking into a dungeon space allows you to leave your everyday life in the lobby. It is easier to slip deep into your imagination, and the lines of reality blur when you are chained to a desk in a classroom, getting the fingering of your life. Time stops, you’re transported back to that time when you saw your best friend’s mother in her kitchen bending over to adjust her stocking, or to that fantasy where you are a little puppy who needs to visit the vet’s. It’s not all whips and chains, darling, though it certainly can be that. The dungeon is a sandbox for grown-ups, and it’s easy to make friends at the playground. Come to the dark side. We have cookies.